Mbalame yapamwamba yamayi imagawana zothandizira zokambirana kwa achinyamata zokhudza kutumizirana zithunzi zolaula
Monga foni ndi chipangizo chogwiritsira ntchito chikukula pakati pa ophunzira apamwamba ndi apamwamba kusekondale, nkhani yothetsa mauthenga okhudzana ndi achinyamata akukweza mmudzi mwathu. Kuchokera kumagulu ochezera achinyamata - pomwe zithunzi zolaula zojambula zithunzi zimaganiziridwa ngati 'zachinsinsi' ngakhale monga mawu akuti 'Kik sexting' ndi 'Kutumizirana mauthenga okhudzana ndi' Snapchat 'kumakhazikika miyoyo yathu - kumalo osungira ana omwe amagwiritsa ntchito Intaneti omwe amasaka ndi kuopseza achinyamata ndi khumi ndi awiri kuti atumize zithunzi zosokoneza, achinyamata akujambula zithunzi zamaliseche ndipo akufalitsidwa kudzera pa foni ndi intaneti.
Makolo akuyenera kuthana ndi zomwe achinyamata amatha kutumiza zithunzi ndi malemba, koma aphunzitsi ndi ogwirizanitsa malamulo adagwirizana nawo ngati mliri wa milandu yatsopano - komanso malamulo okhudzana ndi mauthenga otumizirana mameseji - akukhudza ena kunja maphwando omwe akukhudzidwa.
Mofanana ndi zina zambiri za achinyamata, makolo ayenera kukhala tcheru pamagwiritsa ntchito foni ya ophunzira awo komanso kutsegulira mauthenga okhudzana ndi zolaula za achinyamata, Lori Cunningham, wa WellConnectedMom.com, blog ikufotokoza za amayi komanso zamakono.
"Muli ndi chiyanjano chogonana ndi mwana wanu, mukuyenera kuyankhulana ndi mwana wanu," Cunningham adayankha pafoni. "Kupambana ndi kutumizirana mameseji olaula achinyamata kumakhudza kwambiri kulankhulana pakati pa makolo ndi ana."
Ngakhale kuti foni yam'manja idagwiritsidwa ntchito pomangapo, lero achinyamata akugwira ntchito ndi tekinoloje pambali pa masiku achilengedwe apakati ndi kusekondale. Chotsatira chotsiriza, Cunningham akuti, ndizotheka kutumizirana mameseji okhudzana ndi kutumizirana mameseji kuti azichitika ngati mwana wanu akuyamba kukhala pachibwenzi.
Komabe, m'malo momangoganizira zogonana ndi achinyamata okhaokha, Cunningham akuti kuyang'ana mwachidwi achinyamata komanso chibwenzi kungathandize kwambiri kuti asawononge zithunzi ndi mauthenga ena.
"Ngati mufunsana achinyamata, ambiri anganene kuti kutumizirana zithunzi zolaula ndi zoipa," adatero. "Koma, pamene ali pachibwenzi, kusiyana kwake ndiko kukhulupirira komwe kumawonekera - amamva kuti [ena ofunika kwambiri] ali ndi misana yawo. Tsoka ilo, akangoswa, ndiye kuti zithunzizi zimadutsa."
Cunningham amalimbikitsa makolo kukhala achikondi koma molimbika pofotokozera kuti sikuti ubale wonse ukugwira ntchito ndipo nthawi zina achinyamata satha. Ngati achinyamata akugawana zithunzi izi, zikuwoneka kuti adzawonekeratu, adatero.
Potsirizira pake, makolo sakulekerera pa udindo umenewu chifukwa chakuti simukumvetsa luso.
"Ichi ndikulumikizana kwa m'badwo uno," adatero Cunningham. "Kumvetsetsa zamakono zamakono ndi kuzigwiritsa ntchito ndi achinyamata awo ndi makolo omwe ali pachibwenzi ndi achinyamata awo (chifukwa akugwiritsa ntchito njira yoyankhulirana ya achinyamata) komanso angateteze achinyamata awo pazoopsa."
Malangizo 7 Apamwamba Okulankhulana Zokhudza Kutumizirana Zolaula ndi Achinyamata
Monga kholo, kuletsa kutumizirana mameseji pafoni kumafuna kuyankhulana ndi kukonzekera. Pano pali mfundo zingapo zochokera kunja kwa nkhani yanga ndi Akazi a Cunningham:
Ganizirani Kukhwima Musanakwane Kupatsa Ana Ma foni
Cunningham adatchula Dr. Charles Sophy, wotsogolera zachipatala ku Los Angeles County Department of Children's Services, powalangiza makolo kuti aganizire ntchito ya foni ali ndi zaka 12. Komabe, akuchenjeza, osati mwana aliyense wokonzeka pamenepo.
Ganizirani za Werenganinso wa Makolo Achinyamata
Yakhazikitsani zolinga ndi malangizo kwa mwana wanu wachinyamata ndikuzilemba.
Achinyamata Adziwe Zomwe Amalephera
Kuwonjezera pa kusankha malire oyenera a deta ndi mauthenga, makolo ayeneranso kufotokozera ana awo kuti asakhale nawo. Monga mbali ya zokambiranazi, kambiranani zomwe mungachite poika pulogalamu yofufuzira pa foni kuti muwone komwe iwo ali komanso zomwe akuchita.
Dziwani Amene Akulankhula Nawo
Pitirizani kulankhulana momasuka ndikukambirananso izi mwachidwi mwa kufufuza chipangizo chawo chotumizirana mameseji ndi zovuta zina. Limbikitsani achinyamata kuti athetse pulogalamu yamakono a foni ndi kuwalembera iwo kuti ayese kubisala. Tsatirani ndi mwana wanu wachinyamata za omwe amacheza naye, onse pa intaneti ndi kumbali.
Kambiranani Malamulo, Sexting Consequences
Fufuzani pa intaneti pazithunzithunzi zolemberana zolaula m'boma lanu, ndi kulephera kutumizirana zolaula. Werengani nkhani ndi mwana wanu za momwe kutumizirana zolaula zakhudzira achinyamata, kuchokera ku koleji ndi kufufuza ntchito, kuti aziwatsutsa komanso kudzipha.
Kuwachenjeza Zokhudza Kutumiza, Kutumiza Mauthenga Anu
Mosasamala zamkati, achinyamata akuyenera kuphunzitsidwa kuti asawadziwe zambiri zokhudza iwo kudzera mu IM, imelo kapena mauthenga, kuphatikizapo sukulu, nambala ya foni kapena adilesi.
Mukakayikira, Pewani Photo Messaging
Ambiri wonyamula foni akhoza kuletsa ogwiritsa ntchito kutumiza kapena kulandira mauthenga a chithunzi, ngati sakapereka dongosolo popanda ntchitoyi. Ngati mukukhala ndi zovuta ndikutumizirana mameseji olaula, kapena mukuda nkhawa, mukhoza kusintha ndondomeko ya foni ya mwana wanu.
Mukusowa thandizo lothandizira kuyankhula zolaula? Cunningham amapereka maulere a "Mafoni Akhudzana ndi Mafoni Achipinda Choyamba" pa webusaiti yake.